I am back

My KL trip was all I hoped it would be. And more. Fun-filled with laughter. Clubbing. Moderate shopping. Wait. Hardly moderate cos my feet had blisters from walking too much. As usual, I forgot to bring plasters but lucky the bf did bring. Heh. You know me so well..



Our flight was 920am on Friday. It seems like so long ago already. I wrote down many "to-bring" lists on a few pieces of paper, all of which I lost before the day itself. I suck. Why am I so careless? I'm so stupid.. Another example: I brought my air sickness pill cos I get dizzy reaaaly easily. In the car, on a cruise, and on the plane. Anyway, we went up to Genting Highlands as well, which is an approximate 1 hour car ride from Bukit Bintang. I was dizzy 5 minutes into the taxi ride. I forgot to bring my pills. Booo..Left it in the hotel room.


Baby with a headache before landing. Me being the caring gf, you know.. taking a photo of him when he is in pain.



We managed to get really cheap tickets on Air Asia this time round. Less than RM150 for a round trip for both of us. Nice.

I'm hopping around various topics as I'm still tired from the trip. Energy finished. Arrived back in Kuching last night at 7+pm. Flight was delayed due to the crappy weather. I brought my pills this time. Luckily I did else I would have thrown up in the plane... Instead, I fell asleep for most of the flight. It was still raining when we arrived at the airport, and Air Asia doesn't stop right at the terminals. Meaning we have to walk outside in the rain, carrying our luggage in the rain. Holding an umbrella. Oh well. Cheap tickets.



Back to work this morning.

I will update more about holidays in the next post..

Hugs and Kisses

I was looking through old photos when I came across their faces and sigh. I miss them. I suck at keeping in touch. They are my best and closest friends and yet I've never called them. Ever. Oh shit. I feel a bit guilty now..



My lame excuses: At least I keep this blog to keep in touch. I do chat on msn. Err..sometimes..

I do update my facebook. I do send emails. Or at least forward mails.



Shit. My excuses are getting worse..



I miss you guys..and those days together when we still stayed in the same house, and fought over who used the bathroom first..and who should wash the dishes (mostly me), the toilet (mostly shirley), or the kitchen stove (nifer).

We've all gone down different paths now. Soon we will all be in different locations. I hate it. But life goes on and I'm glad that both of you are doing well now.


Happy Belated Nifer.


Shirley's mum took this photo of us together. Idiots.

I miss them..sigh..I'm so emoey now..damn.

Joke

This is his car. It was originally a Proton Wira. I'm lousy at identifying cars or identifying any modification he made to his car at all... After countless conversations of explaining to me, he gave up trying to make me understand about his car parts etc. What special thing he did to his car, what did he change this time, what went wrong etc..



Anyway this post is not about admiring his car, his modifications etc. No. I am writing this to complain!! Not to his face at least...

Disclaimer: Its not that I don't appreciate how err..beautiful or special your car is. Cos it is. A head turner in small little Kuching definitely. Heads turn when he parks his car, jaws drop and also people nudge each other to stare discreetly at his car. I also appreciate you being my personal chauffeur, driving me anywhere and anytime I want to go somewhere...

BUT!

In a week, you've been stopped by the police how many times? Please note the plural. I'm used to getting stopped by the police while riding in his car. Going out with him, I know to NEVER forget to bring your IC! Be it night or day. Especially night. His car is like a magnet for the police. A special target. I swear police wait by the roadside for cars like his to appear.

But recently there's just been one too many roadblocks by police and JPJ (Jabatan Pengangkutan Jalan Malaysia) Literally translated to Ministry of the Road of Malaysia. Take this week for example. Its only Wednesday today! God! He's been to the JPJ twice already!! In three days baby!! I'm worried ok! I'm also worried for you..

The first JPJ trip was cos of his windows. Not legal.

The second JPJ trip was cos of his engine. Legal but he forgot to bring the green card. No idea what it is but I pretended to understand when he explained it to me..

I think its a waste of time and money but its his passion. His car. His wife. Before me.


Not hard to spot his car, even from the 9th floor of my office..

Last night on the way back home from badminton, there was a loooong queue in front of the traffic lights. Lamenting about traffic jams at 930pm, we both didn't notice the road blocks on both side of the roads. As soon as he realized its JPJ police, he went: SHIT!! FUCK!! And hurriedly pulled on his seat belt and took out his wallet. It was too late to turn down another road. Hurriedly wound the windows and took out IC's. But as usual, the police never let him go...

We were asked to pull over by the roadside. Asked for his driver's license. Lucky the few police were nice last night. Not the type to give much trouble. They asked him to open the hood of his engine. What do you call that again? You know..the hood of his car. the front..not the back. I suck at explaining car related stuff... Anyway, checked the inside many times and checked his car lights as well and checked the inside of the car..

They asked did he change his engine? He did. But no green card to prove it. So, conclusion was he had to take his car to JPJ to test his engine today. According to him, the police were very nice to him. Polite and efficient. Hmm...regular customer baby???

You know that I don't really mean that I want you to change your car or anything right? This is more like a joke. Its nothing funny to laugh at..but...u know what I mean..

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One more working day and I go on leave!

CS

Baby, we've been best friends for so long. We met together back in college. Room 301 to be exact. Back then, we had a lot of the same classes together, and hung out in the same group of friends. We always had a lot of things to talk about. The same stupid jokes that we would find funny, but no one else thinks so. We would invent our own games in class, and our group of friends all think we're weird or childish. But we think its hilarious and still laugh about it till today. (why?)



Both of us were in relationships at the time, but we were still close. Talking all the time. Even during college days, you used to come to my house and chat outside my house till past midnight. At home, we had so much to talk about in msn. Even my parents thought it was weird. The thing was, we were best friends back then. I thought I knew you so well. I know what you like, what type of situations you avoid, and what you like to do.



But now that we are a couple then I know that there are still so much to learn about each other. I have trouble putting into words how I feel about us now. At times, I think we're best friends. Its weird that I can think like that and lean over to kiss you. I would be with you drinking in a pub talking like we used to. And the feeling suddenly strikes me. We're together now. You are my bf now. The difference now is that I hold your hand while talking. You have your hand on my waist and you rarely leave my side. We still talk like before, still laugh together but its even better than before..

Sometimes talking with you now, I wonder how come I didn't see it before? How come I have denied us for so long? And do you feel the same way?



That night, after dinner we went to Hock Lee. We stood in front of a banner, which showed a shop called "Pizza and more". I said ehh..where is this? He said..ehh..looks familiar. After a few seconds:

At the same time, we both said: Ohhh.......
Then, simultaneously: nehhhh........
Then, we nodded at each other and walked away.

And started laughing thinking how weird it would be if other people looking at us, how they would think we're weird. It hit me that we both do that a lot. We don't have to say everything. I know exactly what he is thinking, and he knows what I'm thinking, and that we are both right. Am I making sense here?



Before, I always thought that we are too alike. it would be weird being in a relationship. Shirley once told me, very confidently: you will end up with cs in the future. Equally confident, I told her no. Impossible. Exactly what I said to many other people like Shirley. People who ask why are we not together? I say cos it will feel weird. When people ask cs, he says they same thing..



Baby, I like that we can make each other laugh all the time. We are so comfortable with each other, and I can do anything with you. I can talk all night with you, play badminton with you, watch you race in your car, go to work with you (literally), join you and your friends, cook with you, and go to bed with you. And no matter what it is we're doing, we are so comfortable. We are like best friends, but more. I love that part. I love that we can do everything together, and yet I can kiss u, hug u, play with you.. I guess that's the difference when I'm with you..



Our friends ask us, how come we seem to have never enough time together? They see us laughing and teasing and playing with each other all the time. My mum tells me: you have plenty of time in the future with cs. Take things slow.



With you, I feel so loved, and so lucky. You are not only caring, sweet, loving and protective towards me. You make me feel you care about me more than about yourself. You always put me first before anything else.



People might think we are in the honeymoon period right now since we just got together a few months ago. But I have a feeling that this will last. That we will continue to share everything. That we will not run out of things to talk about, and laugh about. We will continue to make each other laugh. Speaking of making each other laugh, we decided on something silly the other day. We got together rather unofficially last year. We spent some much time together that we can't remember how we got together, so we don't have an official anniversary date.

So, to make things easier we both decided to choose a date that sounds nice or has a special meaning for us. Quite cincai for both of us but we were both satisfied with it. =)


The other day talking on the phone with cs, winnie came and overheard our conversation. She said why are u two talking in codes?? Its actually not codes but the both of us have been so comfortable and so close to each other that we invented our own words. And share the same stupid inside jokes...

I saw this in Timothy Tiah's blog, and went to google the author. I like it:

There's Only One Person by Keely Chace

Are there other couples like us?
In some city a thousand miles away,
are there two best friends who happen to be in love?
My mind wanders to that question now and then,
but never far enough to ever believe
that someone like you could be found anywhere else in the world.
Because I know there's only one person who's so much fun,
so easy to love, and so completely amazing.
And I'm the one lucky enough to have you.

I know you would love this too right?

I have a lot more things to tell you and share with you but I have difficulty trying to explain to you. I know you love me. I do appreciate every little thing you do. How you always go the extra mile to do something for me.

That day your car tire had some problem and you had to go to the mechanic immediately. It was already 6pm. Time for you to pick me up from work. I called you. You said you are coming. But en route to Tun Jugah, you were blocked by the police. Five of them this time. Not so easy to get out of, especially when you had an empty wallet having paid the mechanic all your money. You were more than an hour late to pick me up. After explaining everything, you kept apologizing and telling me how sorry you are to pick me up.

How could I be angry at you when you only cared about coming to get me as soon as possible. You ignored your car ticket, you ignored your car and everything else just as long as I wasn't angry at you. Even after the exceptionally horrible day you had, you still said: I don't care about everything else. As long as I have you. Everything is fine. I don't care about the rest..

The thing is baby you always do that. You always make sure I'm happy. Like you don't care what happens to you..

I know baby. I love you too. I'm so lucky to have you..

I am alive

Hello.

It was Good Friday last Friday; so no need to work. Yea! On that day, our whole family went to 8th mile to the graveyard/cemetery to light some candles, clean my late grandfather's grave and also my late uncle's grave. (dad's elder brother). I forgot to take photos. heh. kidding lar. dad would kill me. and then they'd have to pay respects to me too. -__-


not dead yet..

After that we went to Lim Fah San to light some incense, and pray to Guan Yin..Coincidentally it was the 15th, according to the chinese lunar calendar. It was full with people. I'm quite ashamed to say that this was the first time I've been to visit my grandfather, and to the temple. Since I came back from London last year. I'm so useless. Argh. No respect.

In the afternoon, I went for badminton with cs. We were supposed to play paintball but the bf sprained his neck. Somehow. So, reactions are much slower. And we didn't want to risk him getting more injured. Its a bit kek sim cos he can't play paintball with the other guys cos they're fast. He also can't play badminton with his own friends, cos they're good and fast. He's stuck with playing badminton with me only cos I suck and I'm slow. :(


Obligatory Sunny Hill ice cream after badminton.

On Saturday, what did I do? Bummed around the whole day doing nothing. Sleeping in. Then went out to dinner with parents at Pandan Thai Delight for thai food. it sucks. Service sucks too. Portions are full. Midin was damn salty I refused to finish my own spoonful. Tom yam soup was boring. Pineapple fried rice was too bland. So, no need to take photos. It was disappointing. After dinner went to cs's house as usual. =)


I like. The Ice Cream. Not my face.

On Sunday, I woke up early (amazing) and bummed around wasting time. Went to Boulevard (shopping mall) walking around by myself till cs came to join me after work. Lucky there's a shopping mall so near my house. Can't wait for the cineplex to open as well. Then I would definitely be up to date with all new movies! Anyway, we went for badminton again at 2pm just now. Btw, I sprained my shoulder too last night.



Wait. this is too much of a coincidence. I wonder does it have to do with our sleeping positions? Or positions in bed? heh. different meanings. =)

Oh well I haven't been up to much this long weekend. Just badminton and eating and drinking. I'm a normal and typical human being wtf. I'm so bored now. I have nothing to update. How bout I talk about something interesting such as how we managed to sprain ourselves? hahahhaa...

Ok. I updated my nearly dead blog.

Bye.